Networking Tips: It Takes Three!
It’s easy to get impatient ...
Posted by Jacky Sherman on 23/06/2021 @ 8:00AM
Sometimes, when you’ve been doing something for a long time, you forget that there was ever a time when you didn’t know this. It’s easy to get impatient when others just don’t get it ...
A great networking tip is to surround yourself with people who can introduce you to your ideal client!
copyright: buchachon / 123rf
I had an instance of that last week when talking to my new network group members about who else they wanted to see in the room. Who should we invite to join us? What came back to me from some members were descriptions of their ideal clients.
" They should have been asking for people who could introduce them to their ideal clients!"
This is a common mistake usually expressed in a phrase like, "My clients are not the room" or even, "This networking group has dried up for me!" They are getting confused because they are not recognising that a referral relationship requires three people and three intersecting relationships.
To explain this, it's easiest to use an example from one of the people joining my new network group. My group is specifically for suppliers of green alternatives and solutions. So, everyone in the room has a product or service designed to offer an environmentally sound alternative to the mainstream.
Using Dawn, a new member of the group, let's look at the three relationships:
The Seller is Dawn Walton of Aurora Eco Products who offers completely recyclable paper cups. She wants to sell into independent cafés and takeaways. The trouble is, café owners rarely come to networking groups, but they do buy other products or services
The Introducer is someone who supplies one of those other services. Let's say, efficient energy management also to cafés and takeways
This person can then introduce Dawn to their customers, who are all café owners
So, Dawn is unlikely to meet her customers by going networking, but she is likely to meet an energy management consultant. By developing her relationship with the energy expert she will get introduced to the cafés and takeaways that are interested in environmentally friendly solutions.
By sharing that information with us in the network group we know that a good person to invite to join us will be an energy consultant who works with smaller businesses as Dawn will be able to introduce them too.
I think where people get confused with this three-way relationship is that at different times we take on each of these roles. In business, we're sometimes selling, sometimes buying and sometimes introducing. The key to success is to look for networking groups that contain people who can introduce you to your ideal clients.
"Imagine if Dawn builds those referral relationships around her?"
She'll create a whole range of relationships with others who can introduce her to clients needing paper cups and they, in return, can help each other with further introductions. How much time would that save in trying to access their ideal clients? How much more productive will it be than just having one café owner within their group?
Worth getting your head around who you want in the room with you, don't you think?
Until next time ...
Would you like to know more?
If anything I've written in this blog post resonates with you and you'd like to discover more networking tips, call me on 07970 638857 and let's explore your options.
About Jacky Sherman ...
I help people build and maintain productive working relationships both with their work colleagues and with a wider network to win more business. I do this by combining my skills in coaching, mediation and training with my extensive experience in senior management.
What I love most about my work is when my clients get those a-ha moments because I know they have seen for themselves the way that they want to move forward. Then they will achieve their ambitions.
Helping people who are having challenges with their working relationships gives me enormous pleasure. It was my privilege when working in health care to see how people working together can make the impossible seem easy and accomplish miracles as a result.
So helping people build or restore strong relationship with their colleagues makes even the hardest work easier, alleviates distress for the individual and reduces problems for the whole organisation.
In all this work trust is an essential ingredient to winning business so most of my work comes through referrals. Referrals come through strong business relationships so it was a natural extension for me to train others in how to get consistent and predictable referrals from their network.
What a fantastic way to earn a living!
More blog posts for you to enjoy ...
Other bloggers you may like to read ...